- Possible Reasons For Failed marriages in the industry
- Possible solution
The chance of entertainers falling in love, marrying and staying married is slim, in fact persons have rated it -0.1%, and why won’t they? I mean the rate of divorce in the entertainment industry is alarming. Like almost every one is a divorcee or potential divorcee, no vex with me, I beg, I am just stating the fact.
This situation has led to doubt on the part of the fans, such that when an entertainer states his in love, the question on every one’s mind is Could this be love? Every one asks for how long it will last. In fact, do not be shocked if persons place bet on this things. That’s bow bad it has gotten.
In this publication we examine the new gossip on the street of newest in love couple, we gist about some entertains who are still in love. Also, we try to outline possible reasons for failed marriages in the industry. Finally, we touch on a possible deterrent to failed marriage in the industry.
So join on this roller coaster ride.
The story on the street, the one that influenced the publication of this post, is the allege marriage between Musician, Patoranking and his female counterpart Yemi Alade. Out of the blues. Both of them took to their instagram pages and posted pictures of them in traditional dresses and white marriage. Marriage!!!!
This got Nigerians talking, as in who no talk? Some said it was a music video, but then no music is forthcoming. We all know that in Nigeria, the track comes first, then subsequently the video comes out. So no track, why will video now come out?
Thus, it only means that this is the real thing. Now the questions are once again could this be love and for how long it will last?
What’s a could this be love situation?
This is a relationship where the individuals reasons for dating are questioned because of the stereotype that persons in this class are known for their rampant divorce cases.
People in the industry confuse love with infatuation, an attraction which after some time wipes off. Broken spell, the butterflies die, without a trace. In the end, all we are accusations flying back and forth. Blames are apportioned, with the statement it is not me, it is him/her, as central theme.
There are a lot of such situations in the industry, and should we start listing, it will be a mistake on our part, because the list is endless. From actors to influencers, musician to sport players. The wave spreads massively. And this is not a good thing. I mean just because fine persons relate with you on a regular basis, does not mean you have to be indecisive on a desired spec whom you want to settle with. For God’s sake, they have stood the trials and temptations. From difference in social class at one point in time to too many prospects and you interest from third parties.
Thankfully, we have had situation when the question could this be love has produced an answer in the positive. Where it literally Rains love. One of such relationships is the A. G baby-Simi Connection. No one couple goals in the entertainment industry.
These have the chemistry whose reaction has led to what is called love. For God’s sake, they have stood the trials and temptations. From difference in social class at one point in time to too many prospects and you interest from third parties. And they still scent love.. I Stan and Re-stan. This is what we call love, attraction and more.
Apart from the Golds, we still have others like Banky W. and Adesua Etomi and among others.
These are guys who are keeping the fire still burning.
Possible Reasons For Failed marriages in the industry:
- Beauty/Handsomness without character: Most people in the industry are fake. 100 percent. Take for example someone getting married to some one they met while shooting a movie, without getting to know them. For crying out loud, that person is “acting”, you fell in the actor in them, and when the actor in them does not follow you home? What will you do? Divorce right?
- Too much intimacy: Actors have said times without number, that when playing a character, in that period they become the character. So imagine, your family partner in a movie is a hottie, a single hottie? Wahala.
Then also music videos with spec like models, after focus is lost attraction blinds, next thing cheat becomes your name.
- Jealousy: this plays a major role. It could be jealousy of material things. In the end it all boils down to insecurities. Insecurities cloud judgement and rash decisions are made.
We suggest one solution. Prenuptial contract. Is that a smile I see on your lips? I thought we.
For those of us who do not know what prenuptial contract is, let me tell you. It is a contract signed before marriage that state terms and conditions for the marriage and what happens after divorce.
In most prenuptial contract, parties share the properties on agreed terms. Let me shock you. The second richest man in the world, James Bezos of Amazon, signed a prenuptial contract with his wife. After divorce his wife became the richest woman in the world. Just from prenuptial contract.
So imagine asking for prenuptial contract before marriage, where upon divorce assets will be shared fifty – fifty.. Who will divorce? Cheating will escape people’s dictionary.
Mind you it has been tested and trusted. An American musician and Actor Justin Timberlake, cheated on his wife twice, on the second time he assured her that should he cheat again she gets a divorce and half his wealth. It was signed in contract. Has he cheated ever since then? He fit.
This would serve as a deterrent. Who wants to loose it all on top such nonsense.
Though it has its side effect, as most persons will want a divorce by force cause they know what they stand to benefit. But apart from this, it is an effective method.
In conclusion, we need to speak the truth. With the level of divorce cases, every one is scared to marry some one from the industry. Who wants their hearts broken. So we appeal to the future, let’s put an end to it. #couple_goals.