OGA WHY DO YOU LIKE FOOTBALL? AUNTY, YOU, WHY DO YOU LIKE TELENOVELA/ZEE WORLD?
Today’s title has been a subject of argument in most Nigerian relationship. Football and Zee World or Korean movies. Well today we shall address it, and also, we shall address the clamouring of girls for these Korean guys as well as some love issues. I mean it is the road to valentine.
By the way have you a val?
So, yes it is typical for couples to have petty fights about the above tropic. While this is adorable, and make cute couple goals and tik-tok videos. It is actually led to serious fights in the home.
Most men are angry with the fact that their wives spend most of the time of their day, with eye glued on the television, with wrapper tied. One time a teacher was yabbing lazy house wife, that only thing they did was talking with neighbors after their husband and children have gone out, when they bring light, they watch Zee World, when they take light they still put on the generator to continue.
Well this is true of the daily routine of some women.
On the other hand, the ladies also lambast men who are football fanatics. Men who will go out, and spend late nights because of foot ball match. Not being able to eat their wives food cooked for dinner, because they were out in their friend`s plate watching foot ball. The one that probably pains the ladies most is the fact that some guys that like to watch foot ball at the comfort of their homes, they prefer a collective watching.
Some couples have a perfect harmony in terms watching any of the above. Some times the couples are both foot ball fanatics, or the lady may not fancy Zee World, telenovela’s or Korean movies. Or the guy may not fancy foot ball.
However, there is passion in both T.V entertainment programmes, so what is the solution to a possible friction due to this? Me I no know, I never marry. But a marriage counselor will probably offer this two options, separate televisions and dishes, or the other partner should try to cultivate the habit of watching what the other partner likes; foot ball or Zee World. God forbid is probably saying. Well, love conquers all they say.
I am sure most people, especially guys are shocked about how some ladies obsess with Korean movies and their actors. It is alarming. There was a time when one of the famous actors celebrated his birthday, and men, the comments and love notes girls posted on social media got people reacting. I mean there was I saw that left my mouth open, she said she could kill any one just to have the guy look at her, and that if there was any need she would give her life for him and some other hilarious statement. It was really funny, but what was funnier was that that girl wrote every thing seriously, and that guy will not even see it and should see it he probably would not bate an eye lid. This however, does not stop the obsession. E shock you abi! Point me.
Most girls have them as their profile pictures, some profess their undying love for them, mean while sister has boy friend, who is struggling to hustle valentines gift and flexing money. You have the mind to post a Korean guy as your MCM, Aunty you are doing well!
Some guys have tried to remedy the situation by taking a liking for Philippine’s actresses. You know, those curvy babes, beautiful as maami water. I mean if you want to pepper your babe just be focusing your attention on these babes, you will be shocked by the turn out of event. But if it all goes wrong, i beg do not point me. I never try am.
We go the question of the day: does a guy need money to profess or show love to a girl?
This is one the most argued questions in this part of the world. It is expected that the guy must have money to show the girl love. So nowadays dating is for the rich, those who can stand the constant billing. And as valentine draws near, money is an issue. I mean the valentine packages I see on social media, na un to marriage things oh.
Most ladies do not like to be spent upon. Okay let me rephrase that, there are some ladies who would like to buy their own things or contribute their own part to meals in restaurants and outings. These ladies are very rare, scarce like kilode. Such ladies could decide to call their boy friend and take them out, and will want to pay. There was a trending story about a lady who went out with her boy friend and she was pay for the meal, not because the guy was poor, but she insisted on paying. Well when the waiter brought the mill, he gave it to the guy directly and the lady was annoyed with the waiter that he should not having given guy, I mean what if she wanted to pay. Well this sparked some reaction.
Most guys are not comfortable for their ladies to pay, and this is because of the un written social norm that a guy must spend money to show love. Some guys agreed that if it is the lady who asks for the outing, then the lady should be the one to pay. I can see some ladies face already.
However, this issue is quite serious. I mean most guys have borrowed or stolen to impress a crush. And some girls just keep billing and billing. There was a story of a girl who broke up with her boy friend because the young man refused to give her ten thousand naira she needed to flex on new year day. I mean this guy took her out on Christmas day, and spent on her real good. Only for her to bill another billing on new year day, and when my guy refuse, na so relationship take end.
This is probably what resulted to the stingy men association of Nigeria, say no spending on the ladies movement.